A new 2018 Conejo Valley Series on civility, “Make America Civil Again,” will be conducted at Emmanuel Presbyterian Church (588 Camino Manzanas, Thousand Oaks, CA at the corner of Lynn Rd. and Camino Manzanas) on October 28th and November 4th and 11th from 4:00-5:30 PM. Email firstname.lastname@example.org for more information to learn how you can attend.
Learn the communication skills necessary to maintain civil dialogue on difficult issues, whether theological, political, or cultural. Learn how to listen to understand before you attempt to be understood. Find that constructive middle ground between withdrawing and being a steamroller. Learn how to disagree without being quite so disagreeable.
Bring Civil Dialogue Training into your church or community group. The PowerPoint slides, presentation helps, and participant exercises will give you the confidence and the skills needed to initiate and foster civil discourse in even the toughest conversations.
Although focused on training Christians to be more effective in participating in civil disagreements, our goal is to take the skills learned beyond the walls of our churches to be salt and light for a divided world.
Public forums on timely political and cultural issues will be hosted in cooperation with local politicians. Trained facilitators will lead small group discussions of the issues addressed.
Initial forums will be provided in Ventura County as a testing ground for the effectiveness of the model created. It is hoped that similar forums can be created in other areas in the future.
The mission of fostering civil discourse is shared by many organizations and groups. We are committed to collecting links to like-minded organizations and providing regular blog posts to keep you posted on advances, lessons learned, and challenges faced in making America civil again.
This service costs you nothing other than the time it takes to visit often.
Are you with us in Making America Civil Again?
We want to live in a country that serves the common good and shared values, not just certain groups…
We want to participate in churches where people who attend feel loved…
We want dinners in our homes to be a place to experience peace instead of discord…
Close to home, we want Ventura County to be a great place to live for all…
“America isn’t best defined as a melting pot that boils away our differences. It might better be described as a crockpot that when different ingredients are carefully mixed and cooked together produces an unforgettable stew!” –Terry Paulson, PhD
With cultural and political polarization so pervasive, responsible citizens on both sides of the cultural divide long for a country where we can disagree without being quite so disagreeable. Only with the spread of civil dialogue skills and a shared commitment to the common good of all can we come together to even understand what being a “great country” actually means for this and for future generations. Daring to dialogue is less about coming to “the solution” and more about realizing the value of diverse opinions and finding workable progress for our churches, our community, and our country. Our Founding Fathers felt that core democratic values, partially shaped by a shared faith in God, would serve us if citizens stay true to those values in every generation.
- Are you tired of hateful responses to your comments on social media?
- Are you afraid to even talk about politics or sensitive issues for fear of triggering an emotional attack?
- Are you embarrassed by what passes for “dialogue” in America today?
- Are you ready to listen your way to understanding without focusing only on defeating another’s argument?
- Is your definition of the “common good” open enough to reinforce and even support diverse points of view?
- Are you curious about what communication skills would foster constructive dialogue?
As Christians, we are called to be the salt and light to the world, but we too often shy away from bringing the love of Christ beyond the walls of our churches in a way that is contagious and constructive for our culture. As Christians, we have a common commitment to the King of Kings that grounds us in a unity that comes from God. The Kingdom of God has many denominations, diverse points of view, and political alliances but united by a shared faith in Jesus Christ.
As Paul suggests in Ephesians 12, the body of Christ functions only when each diverse part functions together. You don’t chop off part of the body because they disagree politically or on controversial issues. You find a way to understand and seek the grace to accept those differences as part of what makes the whole better. By spreading such grace, Christians can take the lead in making a difference where it counts in impacting the civility of our polarized culture.
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